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Asked by mercale {152} http://www.helium.com/users/551590 3/11/2010 5:24:26 PM School will be over in a few months, and when it begins again, my oldest will be in Junior High (how did THAT happen?). I know Jr. High kids can be cruel sometimes (and my son is sensitive). It is also a big change schedule wise. Does anyone have any suggestions for helping me prepare him for the change? |
3/12/2010 10:33:27 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
ยท Most schools will have a tour of the school before the year starts. It is very important to go on this tour. Although the tours usually consist of the class rooms, principles office, nurse, and cafeteria, it is a good idea to find the lockers and bathrooms because your child will frequent these places too. When my children started middle school I we had picnics on the school grounds during the summer and walked or biked there often. These activities got them familiar with the building and they found a few friends in the process. |
3/13/2010 12:29:32 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
Take them on a tour of the school before school starts. Tell him or her about your junior school years, to help allievate their fears and worries. |
3/15/2010 1:57:14 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
I agree with the other comments on taking your son on a tour of the school as arranged through the school. Familiarize yourself (and have your son) with the school, where key areas, like the library, main office, gym, student cafeteria are. The more you both become familiar, the easier the transition will be. As a parent, I encourage you to not only talk to the principal, but to other teachers and other parents. You can also take him informally after school just to walk through the campus. Another recommendation is to be sure your son has developed good study skills, time management and organization skills. These study skills include developing strong reading abilities to be able to comprehend anything he reads and being able to effectively highlight key notes in his books (not highlighting the entire books but key passages/aspects). Strong time management and organization skills include regularly using a planner now to list homework assignments with due dates and other assignments and keeping a fairly organized backpack with the basic tools for learning (paper, pencils, pens, erasers, highlighters, etc.) You mentioned that your son is sensitive, so you may want to check with the parents of his friends to see if they are going to the same school as your son. If they are, that should help make the transition easier. Your son and friends will likely stay together on the first days of school, and hopefully your son will develop new friendships once he begins to feel comfortable. You may also want to check with the Jr. High principal to see if the bell schedule for 6th graders is different from the other grades. Most/all the public schools in my state (California) have separate nutrition and lunch periods from the older students (7th and 8th). This allows 6th graders to share these periods with 6th graders only, thus helping to ease that transition into a larger schools with multiple teachers and classes. |