Is it wrong to look forward to my children being grown? I feel so guilty.
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Asked by lizzypo {116}
3/12/2010 9:33:08 AM My teenage children always seem to have some crisis going on. Everyday seems to be full of drama. Drama over little things like not finding their hair brush or having to do chores. 
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 |  Answered by BBmama11 {544} 3/14/2010 9:07:42 AM | [0 Votes] Vote this up Flag as inappropriate |
I don't think it's wrong, per se, to look forward to your kids being autonomous and independent, contributing members of society. After all, that's our No. 1 job as parents -- to turn these munchkins into well-balanced adults. Hang in there, lizzypo! The teenage years are the home stretch. Soon they'll be away at college or out of the house and the ensuing peace and tranquility might even seem a little boring. In the meantime, make sure you are cultivating a deep connection with your hubby (assuming you're married, of course) and your friends and support community. So many people I know get so wrapped up in their kids' lives that once they're gone, what's left. Anyway, just my two cents. |
|  Answered by ErinS {385} http://www.possumpoet.com 4/1/2010 10:58:21 AM | [0 Votes] Vote this up Flag as inappropriate |
No, you should not feel bad. This age can be nothing but drama at times. They will reach it soon enough. Just enjoy the moments you can and support them through the frustrating times. |
|  Answered by jacquie {137} 4/5/2010 11:06:36 PM | [0 Votes] Vote this up Flag as inappropriate |
I can relate to exactly what your saying. I see pictures of my kids when they were 4 and 5 and cry. It really does go by too fast. and then you question why is there so much drama at this age? They are learning their independence and fighting for it not in the form we'd like but the safest way they know. Better bickering with us and learning how to engage peacefully in their own home then learning the hard way in the big world after they never learned it at home. |
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