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Asked by jakki {113}
3/21/2010 4:21:23 PM My toddler is getting older and she has start hitting me. I am not sure how to deal with this problem, but it is getting out of hand. I am a parent who was spanked as a child, and I am trying to do the right thing by giving her a time out. Unfortunately, time out is not working. What is the best thing for me to do when my toddler hits me? |
3/22/2010 1:55:57 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
My little boy did that for a while too. I got really frustrated like you, and started to read a lot about it. Many experts said that you should tell your child to not hit people because it hurts them and to instead take their aggressions out on something like a pillow. Give it to them and they can hit that instead. I tried it, and didn't really have the greatest results with it, but it is an idea for you. Really, I just continued to do my time outs with my son and he eventually grew out of it. I hope that it gets better soon! |
3/23/2010 3:33:08 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
I was raised in a house hold where I was spanked as a child also. I hated it then but now I realize that sometimes that is what it takes. Granted, don't straight out hit, but a small light swat on the butt is just enough to get their attention. It does not hurt them, it just hurts their feelings and makes them realize what it is like. If he hits you swat him on the butt, I bet he will quit within the week. |