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Asked by ErinS {385} http://www.possumpoet.com 3/31/2010 9:06:43 PM Some children seem to mature faster than others, and you don't want your child dependent on something. But was is the appropriate age to begin this process? Is it wrong to do this too early? |
4/1/2010 5:11:46 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
I think a child should decide this for themselves. My daughter is two and a half and still has her pacifier. She never used it much until she got a bad cold. I allowed her to use it most of the time for a while then told her it was for nap and bedtime. She did great with those stipulations. A year ago, we moved cross country and it was very hard on her so again the pacifier was in her mouth all day long. It was a great source of comfort to her so I put up with that for a couple months and then it was back to just nap and bedtime. I've read several advice columns about how to make your child give up the pacifier. I came to the conclusion that it should be her choice. I mean in reality it isn't like she will be walking down the aisle to get married with a pacifier in her mouth. I think people try to make their children grow up too quickly and force decisions upon them too early. She gave up her bottle by herself at one years old and I firmly believe when she is ready she will stop using her pacifier. |
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I agree - she will give it up one day - as long as it is strictly for sleeping. My son actually lost his so I didn't get him a new one. We found it several months later in the toybox. - litlbear 4/1/2010 7:50:28 AM | FlagMost kids will come off in their own time. This is usually the most hassle free way to do it. - ErinS 4/1/2010 9:35:49 AM | FlagYeah, and what's the harm if they still have it at night? My 12yo still likes to cuddle with her Froggie blanket that she's had since being a baby. I think it's special. - abbamom123 4/1/2010 7:39:36 AM | Flag |
4/2/2010 12:33:35 AM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
Our first child had a paci and we weaned by a year old. Our second child didn't like them, so we didn't have to worry about it. Our third child is a newborn, but we plan to wean by a year old again. |