Tips on explaining the loss of a pet to a toddler?

Wow. That's a tough one. First, don't say the pet fell asleep and never woke up...this will cause more night-time chaos than you can imagine! Second, don't just say the pet went to live somewhere else. Be honest. Say, John, I'm feeling really sad today. Scruffy's heart stopped beating and he died. He doesn't live here anymore. Now, consider your family belief system. Do you pelieve pets go to heaven? if so, explain that. Then, take your child's lead. Answer any and all questions they ask. If you are sad, don't be afraid to show it. Finally, if your child is really struggling with this, you might consider a book written especially to help children with the loss of a pet. Hope this helps in this difficult situation.