How do you breastfeed in public?

Asked by Mom2Boys {165}
4/19/2010 2:09:47 PM

I am exclusively brestfeeding my 2 month old son.  When we go out, I usually pump a bottle first, which is tie-consuming and has made us late for appointments several times.  I want to be able to comfortably feed him while out and about, but am unsure how to do this. 

If you do it, how do you get comfortable?  At home, I have to use pillows.

Do you cover up with something?

How do you keep from getting milk everywhere if baby unlatches for a bit?

What do you say if people make rude comments?

Thanks for your help.

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Answered by cameciob {299}
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4/19/2010 2:21:57 PM

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I think this is a very sensitive subject. I've never breastfed and as much as I tried, I was unsuccessful. But I encourage all moms that are breastfeeding their babies.
I recently read a news in our local newspaper that a couple was asked to leave a restaurant because she was breastfeeding uncovered. So, the couple is suing the restaurant and good for them. But must be very unpleasant to have to go through all the troubles with being rejected by some people and then go to Court. So, maybe to avoid these things, would be better that, from the beginning, to cover your breast with a recieving blanket as much as possible and/or to ask for a private place. I'm working in a public place myself and there were cases when I was asked for the best place to breastfeed. We do not have one but me and my colleagues always manage to find a spot were mom or couples feel comfortable breastfeeding.



Answered by Mom2Boys {165}
4/19/2010 4:03:38 PM

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My state actually passed a law protecting breast feeding moms from harassment.  Anyone asking me to leave or cover up would face a fine up to $200, so I'm not worried about that. I'm just looking for practical tips.  Thanks for your response, though.
Have you thought of using a baby sling? I never used one personally, but you wrap the fabric over your one shoulder and around the waist and baby lies there and goes where you do, and both of your hands are free. There is enough fabric to cover yourself while breastfeeding, and you can tighten or loosen the sling to position the baby just right.    -    kristir33 4/19/2010 6:50:33 PM | Flag
I'll look into getting a sling. Thanks.    -    Mom2Boys 4/20/2010 3:25:46 PM | Flag


Answered by monkeysue {156}
4/20/2010 1:44:03 AM

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When I used to do this, I would use a large blanket to cover myself up. This way no one could see anything so there was no reason for them to be uncomfortable. Some malls etc also have a room made for you to use to breastfeed. These are very helpful.  You can also do it in the car before you go in if you have the time to do that.


Answered by monique {167}
4/20/2010 3:04:09 PM

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I think you should just bring a blanket to cover up with.  If people look and make comments don't worry about them you are doing whats best for your baby.  However if you are really uncomfortable breastfeeding in public just pump the night before you have to be somewhere.  That way you will not be running late the next day. You will also be more comfortable and not have to worry about what people say.


Answered by beckiathome {15}
12/7/2010 8:52:53 AM

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I know this was posted 7 months ago, but I just saw this post. Maybe i will help someone else.

I am a HUGE supporter of breastfeeding moms. I breastfed both my kids until they were 13 months & 15 months. I think it is a little bit lazy of a mom that CAN breastfeed & decides it is easier to give formula instead. They are missing out on some special bonding time with their baby.

I had a hard time starting with my 1st child, but we stuck it out & were very successful. I also tried the pump 1st when I knew we were going to be in public when feeding time came around. It is such a pain & very time consuming. We finally were able to feed without a bottle.

My second child was much easier. She NEVER took a bottle! 

With both babies I used a cover up. While a receiving blanket works, a cover up has a strap that goes around your neck & keeps it up so that if the baby moves it won't fall down & expose you. There are both patterns & places to purchase them on the web. 

I am ALL for breastfeeding WHERE EVER you need to, but I also think that a mom should be discreet & aware of others around you. 

Keep breastfeeding & encouraging other mommies to do the same. Enjoy your babies.



Comments from Facebook

Melissa Hayes Bystrak
Just use a cover.. It is natural! I breastfeed my son in public and it took a lot of stress off of me when we left the house.
Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Tahria Willis
Discreetly, but without shame or hesitance. I breastfed my daughter with a wrap in public even when she was 17 months.
Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Cheryle Martinez
I have breastfed all 8 of my children. Most of them until they`re about 2 years old. I find using a hooter hider and nursing tank tops make it easier. The hooter hiders leave both hands free and the tank top keeps one from worrying what`s showing if your blouse is up. I think the more confident you seem, the less people say. I haven`t ever really had any rude comments.Join http://www.facebook.com/share.php?u=http://www.kellymom.com/&t=kellymom+::+Breastfeeding+and+Parenting for some g
Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Kelly Derosier
I`ve always just used a cover or extra large receiving blanket. I`ve never had anyone make a rude comment, although I have got the nasty looks. I just look right back at them and smile. Gets them everytime!
Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Kim Smith
I have a blanket that has velcro around the back. I put it around my neck and it helps hold it in place so that my older, wiggler, nosier babies can`t pull off. Like everyone has said, there are ways to be discreet, you`ll get the hang of it quickly. Most people don`t have a problem with a mommy taking care of their baby discreetly. Be confident, you will be great!
Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Rebecca Mendenhall
When I`m at home I use a boppy, but that becomes too much to take out in public. I usually use my diaper bag as an arm rest under the baby`s head. I also use a large receiving blanket & nursing tanks to help keep covered up. I have gotten dirty looks too, but no rude comments. I do as Kelly does & just smile back at them.
Tuesday, December 07, 2010

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