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Asked by monkeysue {156}
4/20/2010 1:42:53 AM I have a 2 year old little boy that I watch sometimes. He is still not talking. He only says about 3 words. My daughter who is the same age talks away. I am looking for any advice on how to teach him to talk. Ways that I can get him to use words and not just makes noises. Thank you for any help. |
4/21/2010 7:52:40 PM | [0 Votes] Flag as inappropriate |
Well first, it's important to realize that children develop at different times and sometimes it just takes longer for one child to reach a milestone than it does for another child. If this isn't a concern for the parents, and if medical professionals have ruled out possible cognitive impairments, then there's no reason to pressure the child into talking. Having said that, I understand your desire to help the child communicate. After all, it's easier for the caregiver and the child if they can express what they want instead of using tears or tantrums. Assuming there are no cognitive impairments impeding the child's development, I would suggest gently guiding the child's language development. When he wants something and simply points to it without verbally expressing his desire, reinforce the name of the object. For example, if it is a cookie and he points to it, ask Would you like a cookie? Ok, you can have a cookie. Stress the word cookie. When you give him the cookie say Here is your cookie. After a while of reinforcing the words, and after you are sure he knows the word, gently guide him to use his words. When he points to something, ask him to say the name of the object. When he points to the cookie, say You want that cookie? I can give you the cookie if you ask for it. Can you say 'cookie'? Say 'cookie.' Then if the child says anything resembling the word--even if it's only part of the word, such as the 'c' sound or the 'oo' in the middle--praise him! Children react wonderfully to praise and positive reinforcement. Clapping and hugs work miracles! |
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| Ami Sabb If he is an only child that may have something to do with it. My first born didn`t start talking till he was close to 4 yrs old.. My 2 year old doesn`t shut up and my 1 yrs old is on his way to talking. Also boys take longer to talk. The fact that he says 3 words shows that there is nothing wrong. Tuesday, November 23, 2010 | ||
| Sherri Hare Hmm. my first was talking at months, my second was months. I have two friends whose kids could not talk, and found out they needed tubes in their ears. Then after tubes and speech therapy they were talking around 4 years old.. because they could not hear, they could not talk because they did not know how to form the words or sounds needed.. just a thought. or just keep working with him, when he points to something he wants, say what it is and make him repeat if before he can have it. good luck Tuesday, November 23, 2010 | ||
| Tamara Mocny I used to work with an Autistic child, I am not saying he is by any means. I would keep working with him and look for signs of it. We have some Autistic kids at the school I work in and there could be a bigger problem here than what you think, of course, it just could be he is not ready yet. Tuesday, November 23, 2010 | ||
| Steph Stoessel My son is not autistic and did not have hearing problems, but he was also not talking by age 2. I had speech therapists coming to the house but it was only once or twice a week! In the mean time, we were watching Signing Time videos to learn sign language (these can be borrowed from your library) and I would ply him with his favorite snack. I would hold a potato chip in front of him and tell him to say buh. As he got a little older, m&m`s or jelly beans did the trick. At 3, I had to t Tuesday, November 23, 2010 | ||
| Hanan Abu Tawelih i brought my daughter at 1y old ...sign language dvd from library...she feeels happy to tell me what she wants..know she is talking ..she is 2y and half Wednesday, November 24, 2010 | ||
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